"You may not be where you want to be yet, but if you think about it, you’re no longer where you once were either. You have good reason to believe that you can trust yourself going forward. Not because you’ve always made the right choices, but because you survived the bad ones, and taken small steps in the right direction."
Being a girlfriend.
Being a girlfriend is not just about being beautiful and attractive for your guy. It’s not just about letting him chase you, letting him do sweet things every time you’re mad at him and not just receiving flowers and gifts during your anniversaries. It’s not about doing those girly things just to get his attention and not just about feeling mighty every time he did everything you want. It’s also being an emotional partner wherein you support him in every opportunity that he takes, you appreciate everything that he does for you and you thank him for doing it, you remind him on the things he must do and what he must not. Just because you know that you can always keep him on his feet, doesn’t mean you can manipulate him. You understand him not just as a partner but as individual too. you help him in every way showing him, that in a relationship, there’s no “I” or “you”, there’s only “we” and “us”. You know also that a man has their ego, and even when it become a little irritating sometimes, you still understand that it’s a part of his nature. A girlfriend is not just a term, it also has responsibilities that every girl must know. You’re a friend, a sister, a second mom, a teacher, and a best friend.
"The truth is, I pretend to be a cynic, but I am really a dreamer who is terrified of wanting something she may never get."
I think I can understand, how people tend to take for granted when they have it too good. yeah I think, I could understand.
Up til this day, I’ve known too many friends (in relationships) that took their partners for granted. I just wonder, have they ever thought, their (so called) other half could be with anyone else in the world, but they chose to be with you ? & one day, when you realised it’s too late, you regret.
What I’m tryna say is, appreciate.
Show the people you care just how much.
It goes a long way …